Thursday, January 31, 2008
So fast, it's the last day of the month liao. After CNY holidays will be halfway through Febuary already. Baby princess's arrival seems so near. Haha. Loves!! Later after work, Hubby and I going for our hair appointment cos CNY coming liao. My hair is so messy, especially my fringe.. must cut! Hubby's hair so fast long liao, also must cut! Haha. I'm so hungry now. Just now during lunch, the food don't look good so I never eat. Had two Apollo cake to hold on my hunger. Haha. After haircut must go eat nice food liao. My shipping coordinator coming in tml. I wonder what kind of colleague he will be. Hope he's able to assist me. I might be meeting Yings when she knocks off later. I miss my precious! Lols. Shall blog til here. So many posts today. Haha.
P.S: Ying, thanks for ur sms. It meant the most.
Stop pumping the sweetness in me. Lols.
God knows why I'm feeling it together with you.
1) Gotten my always-wanted LV wallet to start the new year with.
2) Precious Yings stepped onto a better path and she's happy!
3) PIL sold their flat at above market rate without worries.
4) Brother in law got splendid results for his O-levels.
5) My family got a new car!
6) I got promoted and a pay-rise.
7) Realised how superficial things are and got out of such social cirles.
8) AWS and my increased salary!!
9) New friends which became VERY good confidents.
10) Precious Amanda passed her new job's exam her at her first attempt.
11) Uncle You passed his TP at her first attempt.
And more meaningful things to look forward:
- Brother-in-law's new car this coming week.
- PIL's new executive flat very soon.
- Baby princess arriving in March.
- Bonus in July 2008.
2008 indeed started out very nicely. I could feel the motivation. Now with more cashy, I will give baby keida the best that I can, I promise!! Too many better things will be happening this year. I just know.. hees. Money, Money, Money!! More, More More!! Haha. Life has been a great one for me. I don't have to get affected for the superficial ones. Shall only focus on the more important and colourful ones. I love my new life! Hope all of you are doing great too!! =)
Life will be still beautiful without you.
Some people and things are just so superficial. Maybe to some, you may not have realise how superficial certain things are. Superficial that you cannot deny the fact that it isn't as important as you think it is. Making it feel as important only makes one feel how stupid, foolish and unworthy. Yes, I have learnt to see things on the better side. I guess a mistake is made a good one if you realised the truth and fact of it. I have done a good one, I guess.
Nothing matters anymore. "I was using you to find trouble." -- SUPERFICIAL as it seems.
CONTRADICTING
Words can be really contradicting too. For eg, "I NEVER steal before." Yet you continued with, "After I came out from jail." So, what were you trying to convey? Did you steal, or you never did? If you stand firm and say, "I NEVER STOLE." You should end with a full-stop, with no 'buts' at all, isn't it? It's really too contradicting. A mere sentence will lead to more contradictions being done by yourself. It creates more doubts on your trustworthiness. Don't you agree with me?
"I hate having cold drinks, but I always add ice to my drinks." -- contradicting, isn't it?
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
Happy Birthday, Mummy-in-law!!
This last weekend was a rather occupied one. On Saturday, Hubby and I woke up extremely early although we don't have to work. We had breakfast with Mummy at Sheng Shiong. After breakfast, we went to the flower exhibition at Jalan Bahar. Lots of different flowers and plants being sold there. We bought 3 pots of plants back home. After which, Hubby and I went shopping at Queensway. It has been almost a year since we last went there, but not much differences laa. Haha. At the end of the spree, Hubby bought a set of clothes and I bought a dress for CNY. After shopping, Hubby brought me to have my favourite fish head beehoon. We went Ah ma house after eating. Cabbed home in the evening as I got tired walking the whole day. On Sunday, we had family Mahjong again. It was quite some time since Granny came for MJ session. Played 3 poks and won $60 overall. After MJ, all of us went Sheng Shiong for dinner. Went Sheng Shiong to buy some CNY stuffs after math. I don't know how we shopped but at the end of one hour, we had 2 trolleys and 3 baskets fully-filled. We really enjoyed shopping. Lols.
Pictures:
What a beautiful Saturday morning!
The colourful flowers made my day.
Animals-shaped plants.
The fortune plants.
The cotton plants.
Chrysanthemums reminded me of the 1st day Hubby and I got together.
Pineapple plants.
Beautiful cactus.
I love these!
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
One good news to share..
I received a promotion letter this morning!! =)
I think i better make a more obvious post lest some LEOPARD thinks I'm pin-pointing. Also, I have many questions other than clarifying. I think everyone would agree with me that every saying comes with EVIDENCES. So, this post will be one with EVIDENCES. Firstly, I am not so FREE to get angry and annoyed with people going round for loans. Secondly, it's not the first time you are doing it..why shud i specially blow up this time? Isn't Peiying my friend? Didn't you borrowed from her? Did I intrude in your LOANS? NO, I didn't. So what makes you think I was angry because you borrowed from my friend? Use your brains. WHEN did I say you used MY NAME to borrow from Siling? "BRIDGE" gave you that idea? OMG. I start to pity your understanding of words. FAINTS. But nvm, let the followings give you a better idea, LEOPARD.
This leopard here thinks I have got nothing better to do to spam her blog. I told her to screenshot the IP addresses, she refused. If I wanna tag, I leave MY NAME. Initially, I posted in my blog venting on what she did. I didn't mentioned HER NAME. WHY? Think!! I wanted to leave some leeway as it wasn't that nice and I didn't want to help her PUBLICIZED for free. I was fair in my doings. But the LEOPARD gets the idea that I DON'T DARE TO LEAVE HER NAME. Hais. But since she requested, I shall aceed to her request. I shall let her know CLEARLY wtf I am so displeased with. I shall let you guys decide for yourself. And I hope the LEOPARD gets her bloody idea too and FCUK away from me. Phew. Imbeciles. Oops. I had conversations with LYNN (leopard's bestie). The dialogue will show you people that she's not doing such things for the first time and she's manipulating even her bestie of 5 years.
Click to read the dialogues --> www.the-leopard-and-its-spots.blogspot.com
Dialogues dated 23rd January 2008:
She loaned $20 each time from Lynn. When Lynn needs the cash, she asked and got a thrashing down. LEOPARD claims Lynn is not being loyal when asking for a mere $60. People, if it's only $60, why even ask for such petty amount? Over the years, she got $15 back out of the petty amount.
It's actually not ONLY $60. Amounts lost track as it happened too frequently. Good thing Lynn's Hubby stopped her in time. Her hubby gets fed up with the LEOPARD's spots. Lynn gets reprimanded for being stupid. She is being too kind-hearted as she once regarded LEOPARD as her sister.
And now.. the following dialogues are of today's:
LYNN asked me why fell out with LEOPARD. Due to Lynn's knowing of the LEOPARD for many years, she thinks there's no remedy to her spots. LYNN was probing about the core reason of my doings. She understood, and agreed with me. EVEN her bestie thinks likewise. The LEOPARD don't think she's wrong. She is proud of her SPOTS. LYNN is impartial and stating her views.
She used the same trick on her bestie. And still can fcuk her when she ask for her money back. Poor LYNN. She can treat her bestie like that. I can't imagine the worst. Lynn although being her bestie, agrees with me being angry. Even someone who doesn't knows me well, can understand WTF I'm so angry with. Yet, the LEOPARD doesn't. Okay, now back to why I was angry. Actually, I think I wasted a little too much of my breath getting angry. Let me spell it out clearly what happened and you people judge for yourselves. My friend, Siling, called and told me in an annoying tone, "HEY..YOUR FRIEND, *****(To protect the LEOPARD's name) KEEP ASKING ME FOR LOANS!! EVERY TIME SHE ASK FOR $20!! I DON'T HAVE MONEY LAA!!" To my understanding, Siling kept receiving such smses from her when she accidentally replied "I'LL TRY MY BEST TO HELP YOU." OMG~! People.. please judge! LEOPARD doesn't know Siling to the extend of talking about money. They perhaps had a longer chat at my BBQ party and ta-da~~ 'LEOPARD PESTERED SILING FOR LOANS.' I felt like a SLAP on my face. My friend came grumbling to me about how the LEOPARD (whom I regarded as my friend in the past) pestered her for loans. You know the SLAP? Knn.. I feel fcuking xia suay. She got to know her more at MY party and BECAME HER PREY. I felt so fcuking humiliated and manipulated. Fancy pestering my friend for loans and got me in the loop. I know Siling for many years. If she's not fed up, she won't complain ok! And I wasn't angry that LEOPARD borrowed from anyone. I was angry she TORE my face.
Dialogue with Siling this morning:
Siling typed out what LEOPARD smsed her. She never once mentioned to LEOPARD I was angry merely of her asking for loan from Siling. OBVIOUS. The LEOPARD made Roti-Pratas for Siling to eat. Siling didn't want to talk to LEOPARD much lest she comes up with another LONG STORY.
I asked Siling to teach the LEOPARD to match IP address and screenshot them out. The LEOPARD thinks I was responsible for the spams in her blog. Duh~! So many creditors of hers. Do I have to take care of that too? Stop being brainless, PLEASE.
I must say it's really none of my business what she did to LYNN. I never interfered before too. Not only LYNN, she left her spots on my the other besties too. But I never once interfered. I am not too free to do all this neither. She did it to so many people, if all I also KPOH, I think 24hrs per day is not enough for me. Yet, she didn't realised that and insisted I jumped to conclusion. ROFL.
P.S: The conversations were on the 23rd January 2008. If I want to tear your face, publicize for you and tarnish your name, I would have done so by mentioning your name and screen shooting all these out on the day itself. Use ur fcuking brains. You claimed in your blog that my sms was not sent to you. Yet, you knew about the sms. And today you are able to sms me with your HP. Wow, your lies are getting interesting. BUt I am not interested. I hope I don't have to do all these again. U fcuk off away from me. If you aren't happy with me, you can come. I didn't want to help you publicize, but you insisted. So, to aceed with the LEOPARD's request, I have got to do this now.
Cos you know what? I'M A BITCH.
Sunday, January 27, 2008
So, now that things are clearly spelled, please stay away.
Cos I don't wish to have anything to do with you.
I hope i have made my stand clear.
Friday, January 25, 2008
Tomorrow is Saturday. Hubby plans to go shop for our CNY clothes tomorrow. Our stupid AWS still not out yet. Angry lors! Wah kaoz.. If not tomorrow can be used to shop for alot more things. Received our CNY schedule this morning. On the eve of CNY will be a compulsory leave day. Which means, we don't have to work on that day. However, they will deduct our leave laa. But nvm.. I need that off day to do many things. Like that, Hubby and I don't have to rush here and there to bring our CNY clothes back to MIL house le. And for the week, I will be only working for ONE day as I have my scheduled check up on Monday. I decide to spring clean my room this Sunday. I intend to vacuum my room and throw away all the unwanted old clothes. I love throwing away things. Haha.. Hubby is going to have a hard time. Cos once I start, I won't stop until I'm happy. Lols. Blog more when I'm back to work on Monday. Time for mass chats with my ladies.
P.S: PLEASE do not ACT as if we are very close friends.
I certainly DO NOT wish to have anything to do with a LEOPARD like you.
STAY AWAY, BITCH!!
Thursday, January 24, 2008
What are the differences between Aerospace Technology (AT) and Aerospace Electronics (AE)?
It will be a busy CNY this year as I'm officially celebrating CNY as 蔡太太. Which means reunion dinner on both sides are important and more obligated. In the past, I could be late for them as I have my own family's to attend. But this year, we must have careful planning as not to make anyone unhappy. Everything is going to be more formal this time. Haha. Hubby and I are going back to MIL's place to stay on 三十晚. My MIL is a traditional person. In the past, she used to make sure Hubby goes home to stay for the night too. This year, I have to go also as I'm married into her family liao. Haha. A different thing altogether. We already planned the journey liao. After paying respects to PIL on 大年初一, Hubby and I will join my mother to pay respects at my granny's. After which will be my dad's place then finally to Hubby's ah ma home. We are going there the last for the day as it will be the place we shall stay for the longest. Haha. We also planned to watch the Ah Long Pte Ltd *Blog Aloud* that day. Last but not least, go home to gamble with the folks! Haha.. The first day is always so full of programmes. Subsequent days will be more of the normal ones. I'm looking forward to spending the 4th CNY with my Mr Chua Wei Jian!! iheartshimloads<3
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
I have just entered my 8th month of pregnancy. Things aren't so smooth. I feel so tired and breathless all the time. My tummy feels so heavy and I feel difficulties when walking. I feel pain in my pelvis when I walk and my baby pressing against me. I feel so heaty and humid. And my bladder seems full all the time! These aren't the worsts, but I must say they affected my mood. My smiles became lesser. I feel so moody all the time. These few days was just work-home-Tv-sleep. Lesser words from me too. I didn't talk as much to Hubby, Ivan nor Mummy. Lesser time spent with Pepper also. I dunoe why but I don't have the mood to joke or chatter. I guess Hubby must have realised my mood swings, so he came in to play games with me. Thanks, I am aware of your gestures. But I really have no mood. Whole day only facing the computer, if not the Tv. I feel like a robot. I hope to rest at home, but I cannot. I need to work. I feel so tired you know! I already turn in early everyday, yet I'm so lethargic every morning. My appetite ceased and I feel so fat every time I look in the mirror. I look like one FAT sow. My thighs and calfs are fo fcuking huge and fat. Everyone is saying I'm too fat. I feel hurt! I even got sick of the computer games I play everyday. I have lost alot of things, I feel really upset. I really feel so moody!!
I know Hubby is trying to cheer me up by talking to me more. Giving in to me when deciding the place for dinner. Playing with baby in my tummy more. Uploading games into PSP for me to play. Joke about cowboys, talk about where to shop for CNY, accompanying me watch dramas and even smoking lesser and further. I know he's trying..yet I gave him cold shoulders and a super farking face. Even when he sniffs me like a dog or tickles me, I didn't smile nor giggle. I just gave him a disgusted and 'pek chek' look. I don't know what's with me. I obviously know my husband is trying to ease my mood swings, yet I find faults with him and feel angry at him. When he missed my sms, I grew pissed off and hated him so much although I knew he's busy drawing. I used to be understanding. I know he's busy, yet I'm blaming him for everything. What happened to me?! I'm torturing the people who loves me. I feel like an idiot!!
Tuesday, January 22, 2008
13 words or phrases that keep a relationship alive.
1. Humour - make each other laugh your guts out!
3. Let it go - if your partner has sincerely apologised for being wrong, why not forgive and let it go?
4. Appreciation and Praises - show it through all ways and means.
5. Flowers - chocolates can be added as a bonus too!
7. Hugs and Cuddles - lots of them. And some long and tight ones in between…
8. You’re wanted - make your partner feel wanted, very much.
9. Forget - especially those unhappy moments.
1o. Remember - especially those sweet seconds.
12. Full and total committment - the one thing that will keep you going on.
I turned to look at people around me, I grew envious at how blissed they are.
But when I looked back at myself, I feel so pathetic, feeling so unsatisfied.
Monday, January 21, 2008
Dinner only started at 7+. I was starving by then. Haha. We had ice breakers, lame ones to be exact. But it did liven the group. Our colleagues were drinking like there's no tomorrow. There were mass dances, competitions and games held. Hubby was chosen as one of the BEST DRESSED cowboys and he had to dance on stage. It was my first time seeing him doing such a thing. I guess he must have drank a lil too much. Hees. It wasn't convenient for me to dance, so I asked his female colleague to be his dance partner instead. The most important thing is our group to win and have fun. Kekes. Hubby looked great in the COWBOY suit. So handsome!! Lucky draw was the last event, however we didn't win anything. Haha. No luck!! After dinner, a toast was made as the finale of the night.
Hubby and I headed to get a cab. Finally, we got one after me grumbling non-stop. My silly husband thought I was upset just bcos he danced with a girl. He held my hands and said he only has one baobei he will love forever and that's me. That silly googoo!! I wasn't angry or what. I was the one who asked the girl to be his dance partner what! Some more, I asked them to take a picture together. So why would I be angry?!! Haha. I was grumpy merely bcos I was tired and there were no taxis at sight. But I'm glad laa.. At least he made the effort and showed that he cares about my feelings. I trust him more than anyone. He isn't that kind of cheeky boys laa. Hees. The stupid taxi driver took the LONGEST route. I am not joking. It was so obvious that he's detouring. Even Hubby couldn't take it and confronted the driver. He still dared act blur. NB. But in order not to spoil the mood of ours, I told Hubby to forget it. If money can settle, then let it be. I dowan to be angry over such issues. Let the driver cheat a few more dollars, it won't help him much. Worst, it might give him guilt. Reached home, bathed and we watched Tv together. After which, I fell asleep without knowing it. Lols.
On Saturday night, we had dinner with Hubby's family. His aunt strike 4D and thus the treat. It was quite some time since I joined them for dinner. It was quite a sumptuous dinner. I had my fill. Yummy! After dinner, we accompanied MIL to shop around. Bought her some moisturiser and lotion for her hair. MIL and small aunt went to get their hair digital-permed that morning. I think it looked great on them. Fresh, new and elegant. If I have the extra money, I would have treated her to it as her birthday present. But too bad, my bonus is not out yet and I have many things I haven't bought yet. When would it be debited in my account?!! Lols. MIL bought a few mittens and booties for Baby. They are so cute!!
Stayed home the whole day yesterday. Ate porridge Hubby prepared for breakfast. Mood wasn't that great thus no mood to go anywhere. Watched a few episodes of Bulls Fighting then took a nap. Woken up buy mummy in the evening. Had MJ session with Mummy, Uncle You and Precious. Played only one pok as we all have to work the next day. End of the game, I didn't win nor lose. Haha. After MJ, I had supper of Fish and Chips. It was such a big portion that I shared it with Pepper. Played PSP for awhile, then I headed to bed. ZZzz.
Pictures:
Beautiful waterfall.
Hubby with BinBin.
Yu Sheng.
Hubby with BinBin.Yu Sheng.Line Dance.
Mass participation.
Yum Seng!
A toast to a better year 2008!
Best Dressed Cow boys/girls.
In the game.
Our group's representatives.
From the other groups.
Friday, January 18, 2008
Yesterday knock off bumped into Jacqueline. Haha. Actually we have high chances of bumping into each other as both or transports drop us at Jp. But soon, she will be job-hopping le.. So fewer chances bahs. Chatted for awhile then she went to buy her pressies while Hubby and I went for our dinner. After dinner, I accompanied Hubby go buy his shirt. He bought a checkered shirt to match the D&D's theme. I had never seen him in such a bright coloured shirt before. But I must say, it looks nice on him. He should have tried more different clothes. Well, he has the heights laa.. So to me, all is HANDSOME loh. Lols. BHB~! After buying, we picked up my HK dvd then headed home. Watched Tv as usual with Hubby.
Ivan came back with supper for Hubby and I. The black carrot cake at Jp 3rd floor foodcourt is really delicious. I won't say the same thing for others. But the carrot cake from that stall is really yummy! Ivan went to dye his hair with Grace. Sianz loh! Everybody is dolling up for CNY yet I can't do this and that. Nvm, next year still got chance. Plus, our precious would be spending CNY 2009 with us! This year need to prepare angpaos liao. CRACK siah. Lols. I want to go shop for nice red packets and mandarins paper bag. Our family car arriving soon le.. Hopefully in time to go Chinatown to buy CNY stuffs. I have alot of things I want to buy! Like new bedsheets, curtains, CNY stuffs and not forgetting new clothes and shoes. Shall stop here in case i have no time for chats. Haha. Will blog about my D&D on Monday when I come back. Cya peeps! =]
Thursday, January 17, 2008
Back to work today. Was on urgent leave yesterday. Hubby woke up looking pale with an upset stomach. I was worried thus called to apply urgent leave and accompanied him to the doctor's. Had breakfast at ALIF while waiting for Hubby's turn. Doctor said Hubby must have eaten something spicy that trigger off his gastric. Bought breakfast for Ah Jun then stayed at Hubby's home for awhile. After which, we cabbed home cos I was very tired travelling here and there. Had a nap then woke up for dinner. We went to have Tze Char at 651. After dinner, we headed home and played The Sims together. So funny laa.. After games, we watched Tv together then headed to bed.
Had a long chat with Hubby before falling asleep. We talked about our courtship days and also the most painful days. We agreed there were mistakes in the past, but we are both glad we have taken the correct path leading to each other once again. Hubby told me we have many years ahead together. Not 10 or 20 years..but a LIFETIME. He once again promised to love me like from the very first day we got together. But he's very bad! He said I become more 'sharped-tongue' that made him very angry at times. So I told him to think about me being 'sharped-tongue'. I said, "Do you think I'm simply a replica of you?" Hubby could say nothing to retaliate. He just hugged me even tighter. But within my heart, I told myself. I would be a good wife and will be more gentle to him. I did try.. and he finds me weird! *angry* LOls.
No matter what.. I still love Hubby loads. Even when we have the biggest fights or the most hurting quarrels. From everything we have gone through, I know how much he loves me. Being together for years, our love is not made up from NOTHING. 蔡老公, 我好爱你喔!!
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
Four days away from work. Finally backie! Hees. Was on leave on both Friday and Monday. Bo bian, gotta go for check up. If not, I rather don't take unpaid leave. However, the ADC scan was an important one. It was also a last one le. So, I rather lose my pay. Hubby was also on leave on Friday. He took time off to accompany me for the ADC scan. He knows I hate to go alone. This time baby was a good girl. She did look up and let the gynae measure her growth. Perhaps she understands what I told her. The scan took less than half an hour. First time!! Lols. Baby is now 1.8kg already. Long limbs and very active heart activity. She's growing well according to the gynae.
So after the scan, as promised by Hubby, we went for dinner at Seoul Gardens. We ate for almost two hours. My appetite wasn't that great that evening. We went to shop around at Bugis Village. It was raining thus I don't really have the mood to shop. End up, Hubby bought a new Tee for himself and I got nothing. It looked great on him. I was very disappointed as I absolutely hate shopping with no loots! After shopping for awhile, we cabbed home. Imagine the taxi stand was empty. Haha. I guessed the increase in fares caused that. Entering a gantry already cost $3. How expensive can that be? Hubby dropped me at Jp while he headed home as I was meeting yings for shopping.
The poor girl had to suck up her ciggies before I reach. Thanks precious for understanding. I simply hate the stench. -.- Although we only had an hour of shopping time, we enjoyed ourselves. We headed to SASA for my Xmas pressie. We were supposed to exchange our pressie on Xmas but due to hectic schedule, we waited til now. Lols. Bought the new perfume I wanted as my Dolly Girl is used up. Bought some faux eyelashes too. After which we went to look at clothes. My precious girl knew I was disappointed with no loots at Bugis. She treated me as her model and keep getting dresses for me to try on. Lols. Finally.. bought two dresses. One which I love alot and a yellow one that she loves alot. Haha. Thanks darling for all the loots. I love them! =)
After which, we headed to the 'pasar malam' to buy food for Hubby and ourselves. We noticed the fermented tofu stall isolated at a corner. How ke lian~! Kekes. Weiye called while we were walking home. He and jac came to pick Hubby and I up for Serene's birthday party at Chevrons. After picking us up, weiye fetched Ricky then the 5 of us headed to chevrons. Mass chats with Jac. We were both bored. Especially me! Cos wy n hubby were busy playing with their PSP. Boring~! After cake cutting and several drinks, we left for supper. Headed to Pasir Panjang for Nasi Lemak then wy sent us home. What a fulfilling Friday!
On Saturday, Hubby and I met up with wy, jac and ricky for dinner. We waited for 2hours loh! I was so hungry that I thought I would faint. Lols. We planned to have steamboat at MS but it was closed down already. So we went Bugis for 麻辣火锅 as suggested by Ricky. OMG~! The food there sucks BIG TIME. I swear I would never patronise that shop again. It made me turn to hate eating 麻辣火锅. *Vomit* Really cannot make it. But I still ate a little. Thanks to Hubby who gave me prawns to eat. After steamboat we headed home straight as Ricky and WY needs to work the next day. I was still hungry when I reach home. Darling wanted to cook porridge for me but I decided to go to sleep instead.
On Sunday, Hubby and I went to have breakfast at Jp. After which we headed home straight as Hubby was very tired. Reached home I watched my HK dramas and an episode of Bulls Fighting. After watching my dramas, I woke Hubby up as Mummy bought lunch for us. Had two poks of MJ. Fcuk~! I lost money again. Sobs. Over 3 weeks, I already lost almost 300bucks. Hubby wasn't happy as he said I was playing a higher stake each time. Sorry =( !! HUbby and Ivan ordered Mac for dinner. I don't feel like eating Mac, thus I cooked Ramen 100 instead. Silly hubby thought I was angry that he reprimanded me so I refused to eat MAc with them. He came into the kitchen and coax me. Lols. I feel like a little girl. I told him I wasn't upset. After dinner, we played PSP together. After a few games, we headed to bed.
On Monday, I was supposed to go for my check up alone de. As I was getting prepared, I received a call from my precious sis, Amanda. Her lessons ended early and she accompanied me for my check up. I missed her like crazy loh. We haven't met up since the dinner at JE. The gyane on duty that day was really CMI. I think I might be more experienced than her. She said nothing, just gave me MC and I did the talking. Faints! I had questions for her, but seeing her un-professionalism, I did not. She didn't even check my baby's heartbeat. Can you imagine it? Hurmfp!! After the check up, Amanda was going to faint of hunger. We headed to Bugis for QQ Mee. She wanted to eat Yoshinoya initially, but I had cravings for QQ Mee, thus she relented. Haha. Big hugs, my love! While we were having our meal, the SUPER heavy rain appeared. I told her it looked like a typhoon. Not exaggerating at all, but it really looked like one. I could see trees swaying about. Luckily, the rain lasted for awhile only.
We went to shop around after eating as it was still early. Within 15mins of shopping, I got myself two dresses which I pretty like. We had mass chats while mrt-ed home. Very busy updating each other. Haha. Amanda headed over to her BF's hm while I went to meet my Dearest hubby at Jp. Hubby said he cannot imagine I took MRT the whole day. Lols. I was so proud of myself. Without cabbing to and fro, I saved big bucks. And I'm happy about it. We went to get his dinner and headed home. Watched Tv together after dinner. I showed him my new dresses. He said I should have bought a few more since they fits so nicely. Hees. We ordered KFC delivery as Hubby and Ivan were hungry. Ordered the Family feast and the three of us finished everything in no time. Kekes. It was delicious. I haven't ate KFC chicken for so long as I don't really fancy fast foods. After watching 黃金路, Hubby and I played PSP together then went to bed after math.
Time for pictures:
Dinner @ Seoul Gardens.
Too busy eating. Only managed to take 2 pics.
Precious Yings and I.
My Xmas pressie. I love the scent. Tks precious! <3
Loots from SASA.
Serene's birthday @ Chevrons.
Forgot the flashlight. -.-
One nice one!
麻辣火锅
Thursday, January 10, 2008
Miss Chua Pei Ying, 妳一定要幸福喔!!!
Wasn't late for work today. So happy~! Punctual for this whole week. This morning I was such an understand wifey. I see Hubby so tired, so I volunteered to go bathe first and let him sleep in more. Haha. Was on the phone with Ms Chua. I'm glad she has sorted out everything. Whatever it is, as long as she's 幸福, nothing matters more. So make a decision that you think best for yourself. Nobody can, only yourself!
ADC scan tomorrow.. I'm looking forward for it. I want to see my baby girl. After the scan, Hubby is bringing me for nice food. Yummy!! I'm craving for steamboat leh. But like every time steamboat siah. Lols. Nvm, tmrw see what my babygirl craves for. This weekend I plan to get some of baby's vital items. Initially, I wanted to go for a swim tonight de. But I just remembered having no swimsuit to fit in. I'm getting too fat. CNY coming.. I want to go shopping next weekend. Bonus faster come in! I need money!! Lols. I want to buy clothes and some stuffs to pamper my love ones, myself and baby.
Anyway, many thanks to the mummies who have been giving me advices on my questions. I needed them! Whatever it is, we all have the same point of view. That is, our baby is the most important thing in our lives. No matter what, don't joke about babies. Don't pull them into the picture. To us, our baby will always be the best. That's natural. Nobody is wrong praising their own kids. We always place our babies first priority. So to those who haven't started a family, don't curse and swear at people's tummy. You never know when Karma is coming to get you. I'm sure you will love your own baby too. To me, all mummies are the greatest of all!
Wednesday, January 9, 2008
Since last week, I have been feeling very uncomfortable. Be it sleeping or working. I feel that my tummy has got bigger and heavier. I really could feel the pressure and the weight gain. When I stand up from sitting position, I need support. Getting up from bed to the toilet, I also need Hubby to push me up. I feel so heavy and I couldn't move as agile anymore. It feels terrible. Cramps got more frequent too. I told Hubby the problems I was facing. He agreed my tummy has become bigger. More veins on my legs are showing too. I really can feel the strain of walking and turning about. These few nights I haven't been sleep well. I feel very sleepy in the noon. Always dozing off at work around 3pm. But when it comes to at night, baby keep kicking me that I couldn't get to sleep. More toilet visits now too. At times, baby kicks in the middle of my sleep waking me up too. Everyday going to work makes me lethargic enough. Now, I don't have adequate rest in the night, I feel worse at work. Some how all these discomforts caused my mood to be very bad.
Hubby is worried. He warns me about going into a depression. I have many questions in mind. Why am I feeling tightness in my tummy? Is it because there isn't much space for baby's movements? I really can feel the obvious kicks and movements of my baby. Plus, the shape of my tummy is very obvious when baby is moving in me! My whole tummy turns out-of-shape and also protruded. Is baby too cramp inside? Am I not eating enough? What are the signs of labour? Am I going into one soon? How do I know whether my baby is engaged already? Questions, questions and questions!! OMG~! I think I need to ask the gynae on Monday's check up as it's only the ADC scan this Friday. Hubby and I decided to start swimming at least once every week. Hope it helps with my discomforts and a smoother delivery.
Also, I need suggestions. I wanna dress up! I don't want to be so messy and so wobbly-dressed. I don't want to let pregnancy affect my appearance. When I look into the mirror, I feel that I have NO radiance and I'm getting uglier. Haggard and auntie-looking when I'm only 20? This cannot be it!! I want to make Hubby look good, I want to look good too!! CNY is coming and I have no idea on which kind of clothes I should purchase. Any suggestions? I want to be back to my life. To dress up like every other lady. But I know it's another figure now. So, which type of clothes look best in maternity period? I mean, who says MTBs cannot be pretty??!!
Tuesday, January 8, 2008
Overall, the weekend was a stay-at-home one. Played MJ and lost $100+! So heart pain siah! Because of the stupid MJ, Hubby and I quarrelled. He said I'm playing too big liao. Then when I lost alot of money, my face turned "charcoal" and I gave attitude. Hubby angry becos I didn't eat the whole day on Sunday. FYI, I starved because I was angry with myself for playing so big too. So, Hubby scolded loh. Hais. Then later we both gorged on the noodles Mummy bought home. Hungry til wanna faint. But both dowan to go eat dinner. Lols. Then the noodles weren't enough for baby and I. Hubby still so sweet made sandwiches for me. I was beaming inside me. Happy!! Hubby loves me even when he's angry. Lols.
Yesterday after work, Hubby and I bought our dinner at the pasar malam. Cos he said JP de food makes him puke eating everyday. Haha. Hubby scared I'm not full enough so he shared his dinner with me while we eat together. I told him I don't want to be fatter and fatter but he laughed. I'm very touched leh. Cos Hubby so thin liao yet every time share his food with me. I see liao also heart pain. After dinner I chatted on the phone with Huihui. The both MTB are so excited with our lil one's arrival!! Watched the 9pm drama after math. A show not to be missed. These few nights before sleeping, Hubby and I will play with the PSP together. I simply love the feeling. Lying on his chest while playing Bomber Man. Then taking turns to play different stages. When it's getting late, Hubby will coax me into sleeping and keeping the PSP. How nice to spend some moments together like that. But playing the PSP got side effects leh. Everyday go work my eyes seem so tired. Hubby said it's bcos I lied down while playing. Kekes. Tonight I wanna play Bomber Man again! =)
Hubby told me suddenly last night, "其实我是很疼你的..."
Perhaps it was because we were having tiffs the past few days.
Blame it on my attitude and both of us are those hot-headed kind.
I feel very happy hearing him say that,
although I didn't show him I was...
But I do love him very much. Not a single bit less.
Sorry Hubby.. I'm getting a little cranky.
But I love you for all I care,
The Man I Love Most.
Monday, January 7, 2008
My world tumbled when you said those words.
I had never expected them from you.
You can never imagine the pain.
I won't forget you.
Friday, January 4, 2008
I'm so glad it's Friday again. Although I have only worked for two days this week, I feel so lethargic. This morning wasn't late for work again. A good week to start off! I'm happy~! Morning was busy but the momentum didn't last. I started 'eating snake' again. Pardon me, I'm just too tired. Slept early yesterday but still, I kept dozing off at work today. I'm so tired! Help me!! Have been eating non-stop since I got back from lunch. The biscuits are just so nice. Eating keeps me awake too. ADC scan next Friday, my appointments are getting nearer and nearer. Hope Baby will be good and look up. I don't want to go for repeat scans again and again.Had MJ last night with Hubby, Ivan and Grace. Only one pok to kill Ivan's boredom. He's recovering well and thus itching to go out. It's miserable for him to be confined at home. Lols. I won $10 in the game. Haha. Last week lost so much to Ivan. Get some back also can laa hohs.. Kekes. Yesterday over dinner, Ivan, Mummy and I realised we have one thing in common that we never realised. All three of us love Sze Chuan veggie. Seriously, I didn't know they love it too. Haha! It's the blood that flows in us. We are Mummy's blood children what, of course same laa! Haha. But it's very warming to come to realise it.
CNY is in one month's time. Hubby say get bonus then go shop for our clothes. In the past years, I always buy a new Levis jeans for CNY de. But this year no need to buy liao. Kekes. Hubby said he's going to buy me a new pair of specs too, cos I have been complaining of blur vision. What shall I wear for CNY this year? Pregnant also can dress up what. But it's true not to buy so many clothes as I'm going to give birth liao. I'm thinking of getting jumpers for CNY. Hopefully I can fit into one laa. What do u guys think? Give me comments leh. Can I fit into one anot? Then buy one pair of new shoes can liao. So two sets of clothes would be enough. Every year buy and buy and buy like MAD. Lols. This year can save up le.
Into my 3rd trimester now. Baby will be arriving in approx 3months. Still got so long siah.. Every now and then I dream of delivering baby. Lols. And in my dreams, I always see my baby with thick black hair. But I didn't get to see her face leh. I guess I must be excited for her arrival. Nowadays she kicks so much. Sometimes when I lie on Hubby, he can also feel her vigorous kicks. How cute~! I told Hubby to carry her over to me once I delivered to her. Cos I want to smack her butt for making Mummy so xing ku. Lols. Hubby laughed when I said that. Yesterday Hubby mentioned going on a short trip before I give birth. Also true laa.. Before baby arrives, faster go play for once. But where to? He mentioned a short trip with his friends. I think it's a good idea. But not too late loh. Hopefully end of January of before CNY. I don't wish to give birth overseas wors! Haha.. Will have more plans on that later. =)
Thursday, January 3, 2008
My birthday cake. Courtesy of Linjing.
Precious and Uncle You
Me with Ade and Dion
With Sunny. Thanks for coming!
The sweet couple.
BBQ time!
Two pits seemed insufficient for them!
Notice Ricky trying to get a shot in the pic? BTH him~!!
Finally, I acceded to his request. Lols!!
Precious and Uncle YouMe with Ade and DionWith Sunny. Thanks for coming!The sweet couple.BBQ time!Two pits seemed insufficient for them!Notice Ricky trying to get a shot in the pic? BTH him~!!Finally, I acceded to his request. Lols!!Okay, now back to updates on yesterday. Stayed home after the doctor's. Had a short nap then busy watching my HK dramas. After which, I woke Hubby up to cook as I was hungry. We went to NTUC to buy the ingredients for dinner and some groceries. After shopping, we headed home. I helped Hubby with dinner's preparation. He's forever complaining about my cooking of rice. I know he's good laa! Kaoz.. but it's very natural for all cooking-lovers to criticise non-stop at other people's food. Diaoz~! Hubby cooked my favourite dishes last night. There were celery, abalone, eggs (moon-in-the-cloud) and sambal prawns. All were my favourites!! Except for abalones, I never like any.
Later at night, I played Audition with Sam and his "audition gf". PX was playing but suddenly went missing. Siao! Wah.. they have become so pro siah! Now Lvl 7 liao. Same with me. I started first yet I own lesser DEN and EXP. Haha. Throw face siah! Sam created a room later and we played Club. Shit loh.. I don't even know what's that. Must choose your partner don't know for what de. Even if you get first in rank, but chosen the wrong partner also lose. Crazy..I don't even understand the objective of that mode siah. Kekes.. but very fun playing with them laa. Finally I managed to WIN with correct partner chosen. Lols. Without knowing it, we played for 2hours. OMG~! Felt so sleepy, thus I left the game and headed to bed. My eyes couldn't take it anymore. I realised Hubby has never failed to hug me before sleeping. His arms are always around me, at least before he falls asleep. I felt so loved.
During our games..
MISSY
生日` 28th December
Wifey Of `蔡伟健 Wayne <3
Mummy Of `蔡睿璘 Keida <3
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♥ My Family <3
♥ My Hubby <3
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♥ Butterflies
♥ Mahjong
♥ Spas and Massages
♥ Manicure & Pedicure
♥ Louis Vuitton
♥ Anna Sui
♥ GuCCi
♥ Mango
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I WISH! I WISH!
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• Keida's 1st Birthday <3
• Baby Boy <3
• Aussie Holidays
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• LV Eva Clutch Damier Canvas
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• VAIO Lappy (Deep Red)
• Makeover Shoot
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