Friday, November 2, 2007
I read this webby and found this entry of the blog author, Kloudiia, very meaningful and I really like it. Please spend a few seconds reading this through, and also a few more minutes to think about it.
"I was very much entertained last night watching TV. Whenever there are shows that talk about relationships and marriages, you will find me sitting there with my neck stretched out like an ostrich. I usually go into this position unconsciously whenever I’m focused on something.
So last night it was about finding the match of couples who were being physically seperated into two sides - all husbands on one side and wives on the opposite side facing them. Everyone will file a major complaint against their spouse. Based on the characteristics of the complaint, we have to guess who is the spouse.
How amused was I! Do you believe that a couple who is married for 5 years, with 3 children in between has the following “issue”:
“I haven’t see my wife’s nude body at all”
Unbelievable? Wait till you hear another one:
“My wife only eats food from hotels, and not take-aways. She will scream and flare at me, before throwing the dinner box into the trash”
When I heard this, my knee-jerk reaction was “Then why do you still marry her?”
But when I saw who the wife is, and how loving they were, all thoughts were dispelled, and in return, I said “No wonder he’s willing to buy her expensive meals”.
You see, in every marriage, there are some pet peeves of your spouse, which to the public, may seem like some unforgiveable crimes. But with every weakness in a person, you will find something positive that can either cancel out the weakness or more than supplement it such that at the end you still find him/her adorable.
Among all the couples, though her husband made her out to be a fiery wife, but this lady was the most passionate one too! The way she sashayed and french kissed her husband showed us that these merits more than make up for her temper. She really is a bundle of energy, as we look at it.
That’s why we say there is one person for every one in this world. We need to look at our own strengths and weaknesses so that we can find one who will complement the latter while helping us to beef up the former.
So, if you hear people complaining about their partners, do not jump to conclusions too quickly. It is only one side of the story. Ask them what makes them stay in the relationship and you could probably hear the juciest part!
As for the husband whose wish is to see his wife totally bare, he might still have to continue waiting. So, what’s the redeeming factor then? That until now, whenever his wife wears something slightly sexier, he always has this urge to sneak some glances to see what’s underneath. She continues to carry an air of mystery! And this spices up their marriage too! Hmm…
If we can explain this using science, I find that this law of physics from Sir Issac Newton’s explains it the best:
Every action has an equal and opposite reaction."
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